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We believe that children in 2018 deserve and have a basic human right to non-judgmental, comprehensive, medically accurate, science-based, LGBTQ – inclusive and age-appropriate sexuality education outside of the home. Our primary goal is to convince our public schools to no longer invite New Hope Family Services to collaborate in Central New York health class curriculum. Concurrently, we aim to raise awareness about CPCs, the downfalls of abstinence-only sex-ed, and eventually work to change state and federal legislation to mandate comprehensive sex education in public schools.
CNY parents in these school districts are concerned: LaFayette, Onondaga Central, Marcellus, Fabius-Pompey, Westhill, Chittenango and Jordan-Elbridge. New Hope Family Services, an anti-abortion, faith-based crisis pregnancy center (fake abortion center), is being invited yearly to give incomplete, shame-inducing, inaccurate and faith-biased sex-ed presentations in these schools, which often do not give parents the option to op-out or even notify them the presentation will happen.
According to their website, unqualified volunteers of the pro-life conservative Christian ministry New Hope Family Services have been invited to present their abstinence education program, Real Love Respects, to area school districts for more than 18 years, reaching more than 44,000 students.
Though New Hope purports to be issue-neutral, it’s actually a faith-based agency that teaches our children through a Christian bias with shame-based techniques. New Hope’s presenters tell teens that engaging in pre-marital sex is wrong, a religious ideal – not a fact – that promotes shame, particularly in students that have been sexually abused. Statistics show that 97 percent of Americans have pre-marital sex, and abstinence-only education does not work.
In this audio, recorded in a Baldwinsville, N.Y., public high school health classroom in November 2017, New Hope educators, the Rev. Jeremiah and a volunteer named Diane, teach teens that their virginity is a “gift you save your whole life” and once given away, is equivalent to a chewed piece of gum. Science-based sex educators call this common religious-based lesson “shaming.” (Note that the discussion is over a woman’s virginity as a opposed to a man’s virginity.)
New Hope is openly driven by Christian teachings, stating on its website, “We believe the Bible to be the inspired, the only infallible, authoritative Word Of God.” This philosophy is inappropriate as the basis for modern sex education, particularly in our tax-funded public schools.
Faith-based crisis pregnancy centers like New Hope aggressively and systematically use sex education classes as a way to bring their religious teachings into public schools. They offer their services for free and establish long-term relationships with teachers, who invite them to their classrooms to tackle what can be an uncomfortable topic.
The organization claims to cover “most” of the NYS mandated health curriculum. Unfortunately, just because they purport to cover it, doesn’t mean they don’t present it in a religious-biased way. For instance, they talk about birth control options, but focus on the negatives and failings of birth control, often providing inaccurate statistics. A regular part of their lesson is to encourage students to sign a purity agreement. When teens sign it, (most feel pressured to sign, as they all do it together in front of their classmates), they are given a ring to wear around school. (We have not seen this purity agreement or the chewed gum virginity lessons in the NYS Curriculum as of January 2018.)
Moreover, New York State’s Youth Sexual Health Plan’s top goal, (p. 6), is to “promote continuity and consistency of evidence-based and medically accurate health education across the State.” New Hope’s curriculum does not meet this goal because it does not present an evidence-based program. They provide what they themselves term an abstinence-based program. Multiple studies have repeatedly proven that this type of program is not only ineffective, but can do more harm than good.
According to the ACLU, “Under the federal Constitution and state law, schools may teach sexual abstinence and contraception; whether and how schools teach these sensitive subjects is a matter of educational policy. However, these may not be taught as religious tenets.”
We believe, as they do, that “public schools should not be in the business of promoting particular religious beliefs or activities, and they should protect children from being coerced by others to accept religious (or anti-religious) beliefs.”
Join us and help put our public schools on the right path to comprehensive sex education.
[New Hope’s 2017 1099 form, which provides some information about their otherwise unpublished list of board members.]